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Dysregulated Kids Podcast


LISTEN NOW:
Calm the Nervous System.
Change Behavior.
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If your child melts down, won’t listen, or goes from calm to overwhelmed in seconds… you’re not alone.

Every kid gets dysregulated sometimes—but when it keeps happening, it’s a sign the nervous system needs support.

Get simple, clear ways to help your child calm down and feel in control.
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START HERE:

What Does Your Child Needs the Most?
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Meltdowns & Big Emotions

→ How to Stop Meltdowns Before They Start

Not Listening & Defiance

→ Why Your Child Isn’t Listening (And What to Do Instead)

ADHD & Focus Struggles

→ Why Dysregulated Kids Can’t Use Executive Function

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Anxiety & Overwhelm

→ Calm Words That Actually Work

Daily Stress & Sudden Blow-Ups

→ The Stress Cup: Why Kids Explode Over Small Things



Check Out the Dysregulated Kids Podcast Series:

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Tips | Regulation First Parenting® | E186

Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Tips | Regulation First Parenting® | E186

Discover compassionate Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria Tips to support your emotionally dysregulated child using Regulation First Parenting® approach.
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Homeschooling Special Needs Children and Teens with Terrie McKee | Regulation-First Parenting | E185

Homeschooling Special Needs Children and Teens with Terrie McKee | Regulation-First Parenting | E185

In this episode, we delve into homeschooling special needs children, emphasizing the importance of understanding regulations and maximizing extracurricular opportunities.
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Pathological Demand Avoidance vs. Oppositional Defiant Disorder | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E184

Pathological Demand Avoidance vs. Oppositional Defiant Disorder | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E184

Navigating the complexities of Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) can be challenging. This episode offers clarity and guidance for parents to develop effective parenting strategies.
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What is Pathological Demand Avoidance? | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E183

What is Pathological Demand Avoidance? | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E183

Decode pathological demand avoidance (PDA) so you can understand why your child resists even simple demands and learn what actually helps. Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge explains how Regulation First Parenting® supports emotional dysregulation in children.
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AuDHD: How Autism Affects Attention | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E182

AuDHD: How Autism Affects Attention | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E182

Understand how autism affects attention so you can spot the real reason behind zoning out or missed cues and learn brain-based tools from Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge and Regulation First Parenting® to support emotional dysregulation in children. Listen now.
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Increase Motivation in Children with Attention Issues | Nervous System Strategies | E181

Increase Motivation in Children with Attention Issues | Nervous System Strategies | E181

This episode dives deep into a comprehensive understanding of strategies and insights aimed at empowering parents, educators and caregivers to support and increase motivation in children with attention problems.
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Natural Remedies for Childhood Anxiety | Nervous System Strategies | E180

Natural Remedies for Childhood Anxiety | Nervous System Strategies | E180

In today’s episode, we’ll talk more about the natural remedies for childhood anxiety and behavioral challenges that offer effective alternatives to psychiatric medications and are backed by evidence-based approaches and Regulation First Parenting®.
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Parenting Neurodivergent: Helping Your Child Become a Successful Adult with Zhara Astra | Regulation-First Parenting | E179

Parenting Neurodivergent: Helping Your Child Become a Successful Adult with Zhara Astra | Regulation-First Parenting | E179

For today’s episode with Zhara Astra – a filmmaker, professor, and advocate for neurodiversity – we’ll be exploring more about the challenges, triumphs, and essential tips for supporting neurodivergent children on their journey to adulthood.
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Neurodivergent Families: When You are a Neurodivergent Parent | Regulation-First Parenting | E178

Neurodivergent Families: When You are a Neurodivergent Parent | Regulation-First Parenting | E178

Neurodivergent families, 25% of the US population, face unique challenges. With small steps and positivity, parents nurture resilience and harmony.
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How Neuroinflammation Affects Mental Health | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E177

How Neuroinflammation Affects Mental Health | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E177

Neuroinflammation can quietly fuel anxiety, behavior changes, and cognitive struggles. In this episode, I break down what’s really going on in the brain—and how my Regulation First Parenting® approach supports kids facing emotional dysregulation.
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Anti-Inflammatory diets for Kids Behavior | Nervous System Strategies | E176

Anti-Inflammatory diets for Kids Behavior | Nervous System Strategies | E176

Discover how anti-inflammatory diets for kids can ease irritability, strengthen focus, and make regulation more attainable, even for picky eaters. These shifts don’t have to be extreme to make a real difference. Listen to the episode to hear how small food choices support a calmer brain.
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Treating PANS/PANDAS - a Comprehensive Approach with Dr. Scott Antoine | Nervous System Strategies | E175

Treating PANS/PANDAS - a Comprehensive Approach with Dr. Scott Antoine | Nervous System Strategies | E175

Struggling to understand sudden OCD, anxiety, or behavioral changes? In this episode, I explore treating PANS/PANDAS with expert Dr. Scott Antoine, sharing evidence-based strategies to help kids heal. I guide parents using my Regulation First Parenting® approach to calm dysregulated brains.
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OCD in School | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E174

OCD in School | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E174

OCD in school can quietly derail learning, focus, and confidence. In this episode, I break down how intrusive thoughts impact academics and what truly helps by applying the Regulation First Parenting® approach to support kids through emotional dysregulation.
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Treatment for OCD Intrusive Thoughts | Nervous System Strategies | E173

Treatment for OCD Intrusive Thoughts | Nervous System Strategies | E173

Finding the right treatment for OCD intrusive thoughts can feel overwhelming for parents. In this episode, I share how to calm the OCD brain and break fear cycles—drawing on my expertise in Regulation First Parenting® and supporting emotionally dysregulated kids.
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Belief vs. Skepticism: Navigating Doubts About Behavioral and Mental Health Solutions | Regulation-First Parenting | E172

Belief vs. Skepticism: Navigating Doubts About Behavioral and Mental Health Solutions | Regulation-First Parenting | E172

Join us as we unravel the complexities of mental health solutions, dispelling misconceptions and offering guidance for informed decisions. Let's empower well-being together!
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Can You Do Neurofeedback at Home | Nervous System Strategies | E171

Can You Do Neurofeedback at Home | Nervous System Strategies | E171

Can you do neurofeedback at home? Explore how parents can use safe, science-backed tools to support a dysregulated child’s brain. Dr. Roseann Capanna Hodge shares how home neurofeedback builds real self regulation and lasting change using her expert Regulation First Parenting® approach.
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PANS PANDAS Recovery in Children and Teens? | Nervous System Strategies | E170

PANS PANDAS Recovery in Children and Teens? | Nervous System Strategies | E170

Exploring challenges and recovery from PANS and PANDAS, emphasizing the importance of guidance and early intervention for children's care.
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Natural Treatment for PANS and PANDAS | Nervous System Strategies | E169

Natural Treatment for PANS and PANDAS | Nervous System Strategies | E169

Struggling with sudden spirals or complex symptoms? In this episode, I break down natural treatment for PANS PANDAS and what truly helps kids heal. As a Regulation First Parenting® expert, I guide families through emotional dysregulation with science-backed solutions.
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The Emotional Toll of PANS/PANDAS | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E168

The Emotional Toll of PANS/PANDAS | Emotional Dysregulation in Children | E168

The PANS/PANDAS emotional impact touches every part of family life, leaving parents overwhelmed and desperate for answers. In this episode, I share how calming the brain supports healing—and how my Regulation First Parenting® approach guides families through emotional dysregulation with hope.
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Do You Feel Like You Have You Tried Everything to Help Your Child? | Nervous System Strategies | E167

Do You Feel Like You Have You Tried Everything to Help Your Child? | Nervous System Strategies | E167

Parents often feel lost when searching for real support for neurodivergent kids. This episode explores why progress takes time, why trusting your gut matters, and how Regulation First Parenting® empowers families. Dr. Roseann Capanna Hodge guides you with clarity and hope.
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Magnesium and PANS/PANDAS with Dr. Darin Ingels | Nervous System Strategies | E166

Magnesium and PANS/PANDAS with Dr. Darin Ingels | Nervous System Strategies | E166

Magnesium and PANS PANDAS are deeply connected, and in this episode with Dr. Darin Ingels, I break down how magnesium supports brain healing and calms neuroinflammation. As always, I guide parents through Regulation First Parenting® to help dysregulated kids find real relief.
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Supplements for Anxiety: Natural Remedies for a Calmer Mind | Nervous System Regulation | E165

Supplements for Anxiety: Natural Remedies for a Calmer Mind | Nervous System Regulation | E165

Explore natural remedies for anxiety and the science behind supplements with evidence-based solutions for a calmer mind. Join the conversation on prioritizing mental health.
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Behavioral Regulation and Mood Therapy | Nervous System Regulation | E164

Behavioral Regulation and Mood Therapy | Nervous System Regulation | E164

Join us in today's episode as we explore the nuances of behavioral regulation, delve into mood therapy, and discover strategies for navigating emotional challenges in our fast-paced world.
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Magnesium for Mood: Dr. Jaquel Patterson | Nervous System Strategies | E163

Magnesium for Mood: Dr. Jaquel Patterson | Nervous System Strategies | E163

If your child is anxious, moody, or wired at night, magnesium for mood may be the missing piece. In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Jaquel Patterson to explain how calming the brain with nutrients supports emotional regulation. As the founder of Regulation First Parenting®, I help families create re
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Dysregulated Kids Podcast

Emotional Dysregulation, Anxiety, and
Nervous System Solutions for Kids


If you feel like nothing is working and your child has constant meltdowns, big emotional reactions, or struggles to focus and follow through—you’re not imagining it.

And you’re not alone.

‍The Dysregulated Kids Podcast helps you understand what’s really driving your child’s behavior—through the lens of the nervous system.

Because behavior isn’t the problem. It’s the signal.

With over 30 years of clinical experience and insights from more than 10,000 brain maps, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge teaches you how to:

● Support your child’s nervous system in real time
● Use co-regulation to reduce meltdowns and power struggles
● Build self-regulation skills that actually stick
● Improve focus, attention, and emotional control
● Every child gets dysregulated sometimes.

But when it’s frequent, intense, or hard to recover from, your child needs more than behavior strategies—they need nervous system support.

Each episode gives you clear, science-backed tools you can use immediately—so your child can be more regulated, and behavior, focus, and connection can finally improve.

What You’ll Find Inside the Podcast


If you’ve ever thought…“Why does my child go from calm to overwhelmed so fast?”
“Why won’t they listen—even when they know better?”
“Why do small things turn into big reactions?”

You’re in the right place.

Inside the Dysregulated Kids Podcast, we break down what’s really going on beneath the surface—and what actually helps.

You’ll learn how to support your child when they are:

● Melting down, shutting down, or having big emotional reactions
● Struggling to focus, stay organized, or follow through
● Feeling anxious, stuck in worries, or overwhelmed
● Reacting strongly to noise, transitions, or sensory input
● Pushing back, refusing, or getting easily frustrated
● Having a hard time at school—even when they’re smart
● Needing more connection, support, and co-regulation
● Stuck in patterns that feel exhausting for both of you

And most importantly…You’ll learn how to calm the nervous system first, so behavior, focus, and emotional control can finally improve.

Dysregulated Kids Podcast FAQ

How can I help my dysregulated child calm down?
Is this podcast right for my child’s behavior?
Where should I start if I’m new to dysregulation?
Is it normal for kids to be dysregulated sometimes?
How do I know if my child is dysregulated?
Is this podcast only for kids with ADHD or anxiety?
Will I get strategies I can use right away?
What topics do you cover?
How is this different from other parenting podcasts?

About Dr. Roseann

Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge is a licensed therapist, certified school psychologist, and parent of neurodivergent kids who has spent over 30 years helping families understand one powerful truth:

‍Behavior isn’t the problem—it’s a signal from the nervous system.When kids melt down, shut down, or struggle to focus, it’s not because they won’t do better.
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It’s because, in that moment, they can’t.Through her work with thousands of families — and insights from more than 10,000 brain maps—Dr. Roseann teaches parents how to calm the brain first so real change can happen.

She is the creator of Regulation First Parenting®, a science-backed approach that helps you:
Stay calm and grounded—even in the hardest moments
Support your child’s nervous system in real time
Reduce meltdowns, anxiety, and power struggles
Build lasting self-regulation, focus, and resilience

Her approach is practical, compassionate, and designed for real life—because parenting a dysregulated kid isn’t about doing more…It’s about doing what actually works.Because kids don’t need to be fixed.

They need nervous systems that feel safe enough to regulate.

Not sure where to start?

Take the Solution Matcher Quiz and discover what your child’s nervous system actually needs. Finally understand what your child needs—and what to do next.

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